Why did I land on the word Goddess to describe the way I’m living right now? Iris was the Greek goddess of rainbows. I don’t know about you, but when I see a rainbow in the sky, I am immediately filled with hope. It doesn’t matter what happened during that day. A rainbow erases it all and reminds me of the peace and beauty that comes with the aftermath of even the most destructive storm. My life has weathered a prolonged and disastrous storm of toxic relationships with avoidant, narcissistic, and emotionally available partners.
The turning point of this storm was the most difficult thing I’ve ever faced: my fiance breaking up with me without warning.
It had been three perfect years with the man I thought was my soulmate. He had found me after a terrible domestic violence experience, and I was not in a good place mentally or emotionally when we met. I thought he was my dream partner and the love of my life. Then one day, he let me know that he had been lying to me for the majority of our relationship, and he couldn’t marry me, let alone be in a relationship with me.
I was more than heartbroken. This shattered and shook me to my very core.
It took a lot of time and work to be the goddess in the yellow dress. It was the first time I had attempted to get to the bottom of what was attracting such toxic partners and stuck in this neverending cycle of heartbreak. There were bumps and setbacks along the way, along with days of pure triumph and days of crippling sadness. I had been to therapy for years but never felt like I had made any significant progress. This healing journey transformed my life.
I referred to that process as Unleashing My Goddess to a friend when I tried to explain how different I felt after doing the work. Eventually, that became the name of my signature coaching course. Unleashing my goddess was a turning point in my life. I’ll let you in on a little secret. I am 31 years old, and this is the first time I feel like I’m doing exactly what I was meant to be doing. I am so excited to help you transform your life and help you design the relationship that you deserve.